Wednesday, October 27, 2010

P.S. Arts Express Yourself

One of my favorite Autumn events is coming up - the annual P.S. Arts Express Yourself.   P. S. Arts is an organization dedicated to putting creative arts programs into local public schools which would otherwise have none.  This is a cause I deeply believe in for two reasons. The first is that, for me, personal, creative expression is the essence of life. I want to give mine - I want to see yours. Stephen Sondheim wrote "children and art." That pretty much sums it up for me.


But the second reason I support P.S Arts is just as important. When I was a young student I didn't feel particularly smart. I wasn't very good at math, I was a poor and uninterested test-taker. Honestly I really just preferred to be left alone to read. If a teacher was able to capture my imagination with an interesting story I would engage in english or history class but otherwise, I am sorry to say, I managed to sit in the back and not get called on. Excepwhen it was time for music class, or our P E session was dance, or we were putting on a play.  Then - oh, then! - encouraged, talented and most of all reached -  I came alive.  It wasn't until I got to college that I realized - Hey,  it's not that I'm not smart - it's that these are the ways in which I am smart - and that I can use my ways to learn. I can apply my real interests, my interests in the arts, to all kinds of subjects.  Time to study American History? Look at paintings of the period - how did people dress? What were they pictured doing? How was the country pictured differently than the city? How did people express their values by the objects shown with them in paintings? And what can we learn from studying the music of a time? Not only what music people listened to but instruments they were able to hear.  Where did they come from? How were they made? What were their dances and festival celebrations, their rituals and feasts? These kinds of observations lead into discussions about class issues, gender expectations, labor and craftsmanship, tools, available woods, trade, travel routes, dangers for traders, war  - the list, the conversation, the learning goes on and on once you have initially engaged the child through the arts.   For many children, the arts are the hook into school, even into the world.  Listen, it's great to score well on a standardized test but that's not the only way of being smart and it shouldn't be the only chance kids get to feel smart. When we take the arts out of our schools we deprive many of our children of opportunities to feel intelligent.  Feeling intelligent means a kid will tune in - maybe even stay in - school.

So - we need the arts in our schools. But we all know what's happening. That's where a group like P.S. Arts comes in and it's where you come in too.  Click over to the P.S. Arts page and get your family tickets to the Express Yourself event on Sunday, November 7th at the Barker Hanger at Santa Monica Airport.  It's a fantastic day filled with arts and crafts, music, dancing and treats from some of our city's best restaurants.  The event is expensive - a family 4 pack is $650 plus $50 for each additional child. But if you can do it, I promise you and your kids will have a great time while contributing to a great cause.  If the event isn't for you please consider making a donation or checking out their store for really cute Holiday gifts.  I bet your child's teacher would love one of these cute tote bags -

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Boutique Week Going On Now!


I did not even know this was happening! Boutiques all over Los Angeles (and Boston and New York in case you're interested) are offering at least 25% off at least half their merchandise now through Sunday, October 31st. Click on the link to register and get your access code, present your code when shopping and enjoy your discount. For the Huffington Post's top 5 boutique week deals click here.

Halloween Fun All Over Los Angeles

Halloween falls on a Sunday this year and that means your kids get to celebrate with a whole weekend full of treats. Here are some of the fun, safe, kid oriented events going on around town this weekend -

MALIBU
On Saturday the 30th from 3-5 up in Malibu you and your children can enjoy a safe trick or treating afternoon.  Grab a coffee and stroll through Legacy Park, Malibu Country Mart and the Lumbar Yard. Local businesses will be handing out treats. This event is free and open to the public. Look for the bright  orange balloons indicating participating businesses.

On Sunday the Malibu Farmer's Market  will be open for tricks or treats. Get your costumes on and bring the your whole family to enjoy a picnic style Sunday brunch with the fresh food from the Market Food Court.  Market hours are 10-3.

WEST SIDE
Beethoven Elementary School in Venice hosts their Bear Scare Halloween Carnival on Saturday from 10 - 3.  Click here for more info.

Sunday the 31st from 11 -3 The Pacific Palisades Chamber Of Commerce presents The Village Fair. The Fair will take place on the quad at Palisades High School 15777 Bowdoin Street at Temescal Canyon Blvd. Rides, games, a haunted house and a costume contest promise a fun afternoon.

WESTWOOD
The Westwood Recreation Center hosts a Halloween Carnival on Saturday the 30th from 3-7. Arts and crafts, games, face painting and a costume contest. Entrance fee is $5 per child.  The Rec Center is located at 1350 Sepulveda Blvd.


MID CITY



First Congregational Church of Los Angeles is the oldest Protestent church in the city.  On Sunday, October 31, they open their doors to the entire community beginning at 4pm with a free Halloween Festival for kids. Costumes are encouraged. Stay for the 6pm screening of The Phantom of the Opera and enjoy the live organ music provided by Christian Elliot, American Theatre Organ Society's organist of the year. Click here for the church calendar.


The LA Zoo hosts  BOO IN THE ZOO on Saturday and Sunday from 10 - 4. Kids in Costume get $1 off admission.

 Some suggestions for great teen to adult oriented events can be found by clicking  here.

If you have a suggestion for a fun, family oriented activity happening in Los Angeles this weekend please share it in the comment section.  Happy Halloween Everybody!

Friday, October 22, 2010

Artisanal L A - a weekend celebration of the local and delicious

This weekend is a great time to get to know Artisanal LA. Head to the Cooper Building  downtown to taste, shop, sample and learn about many of the city's local, handmade foods. Click here for $10 advance purchase tickets, $15 at the door. This is a family friendly event that includes demonstrations, workshops and arts and crafts. Some of the proceeds go to benefit the LAUSD  edible school gardens program. Click here for more information.

Thursday, October 21, 2010

EARTHQUAKE!!!!!!!!!!!


Today is the annual Great California Shake Out. If you have kids it's likely they will be practicing earthquake safety in school, right around 10:21 this morning. You also should be doing it in your office.  If you home-school, work from home, or have a trust fund and spend all day bouncing between the gym and the coffee bean you need to remind yourself that this is earthquake country. Do you have water to last you and your family several days? Canned and dried food? Pet food, flashlights, batteries, first aid, the tool to turn off your gas nozzle (where is your gas nozzle dear readers? find it) a battery powered radio and a big bottle of scotch?  Your personal list varies only slightly.

Click here for a preparedness check list and here for a suggested list of things to keep on hand (And I don't know if any official organization will tell you this but make a mini kit for your car. I know someone who was stuck her car for 3 days during a blizzard in Buffalo.  I know it's not exactly the same but still).

We are the grownups and today is a good day to act like it.  Talk to your kids. Make a family plan. Buy what you need. Take care of yourself and the people you love. Have a great day.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Local Business - Big Savings


DealPop, the popular on-line discount buying site, goes National today.  In keeping with their mission to offer subscribers the best from local businesses at fantastic discounts, the National site features small, local businesses that ship all over the country. Today's discount is $20 worth of products from the Maple Sugar and Vermont Spice company (based in Vermont, obviously) for only $10.

And don't forget to sign up for local deals too.  DealPop offers great discounts to all kinds of shops and restaurants in Los Angeles, San Francisco and Seattle.  The holidays are coming up  and I don't know about you but I am determined to use  DealPop and other discount web sites to help with all the holiday shopping!

I have a $15 credit to offer one of my readers. The first person to email me gets it. Do it today and you can get a yummy bottle of syrup from today's National deal for your winter morning pancakes - have a great day.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Movies for Halloween

My family loves to watch movies together and we usually spend one night a week eating dinner in front of one. As Halloween approaches, my boys are insisting that they are ready to watch scary movies. They really, really, really want to see something scary! Hum... What to offer them?  Scary but not too scary.  Exciting but not violent.  It's a great opportunity to introduce them to some classic films so some old black and white pictures are definitely to be considered.  Here are some suggestions for appropriately scary movies to watch with your kids. Bear in mind that my boys are 10 and 12.  I feel comfortable showing them any of the following films but you are the best judge of what is right for your kids.



Them from 1954.  I love this movie, one of the best to explore America's new fear of nuclear radiation. Giant ants roam the desert and wind up in a final confrontation in the drain pipes of the LA river. The black and white cinematography is fantastic and the acting is superior to much of what you see in movies of this type. A true classic.



The Blob, the original from 1958 staring Steve McQueen.  This film is a little gory because the blob gets redder and redder as it spreads its way through the small American "any-town", consuming whoever lies in its path.  But the deaths are not graphic and the whole thing is so absurd that kids can enjoy being scared with out getting freaked out.


Murder by Death from 1976 is not a horror movie per say but it is a murder mystery and it would be great to watch before Halloween. Written by Neil Simon the movie is funny in a clever and kid friendly, slightly wacky way.  It's not a perfect film, the ending left us all a little confused, but it's so much fun that it's worth seeking out.

It Came From Outer Space, 1953.  An alien space craft lands in the Arizona Desert and nobody believes the amateur stargazer who saw the whole thing until it's almost too late!  The Aliens take over the citizens a la Invasion of the Body Snatchers.

And speaking of that...







Invasion of the Body Snatchers from 1978. Though it's rated PG I strongly caution that this one is for kids at least 11 years old. It's just too creepy for younger kids (plus there are some adult situations.) The 1956 version is milder but this one is so good it gets my vote. We watched it last summer and my 11 year old LOVED it. I am shuddering thinking about the ending...



For the younger set (but really who doesn't love these guys)  Any of the "Abbott and Costello meet..." films are a great choice;  Frankenstein, the Mummy, Dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde and the Invisible Man.  You can't go wrong with kids 7-8 and up.

So, where to get these films? Well, Netflix has a lot of them and so does the well stocked CD universe. Click on the link to be taken to their Halloween selection page.  If you are here on the west side of Los Angeles you can take your kids to the wonderful Vidiots at 302 Pico Blvd in Santa Monica. The store is a treasure trove of hard to find movies.  The Godzilla collection alone is worth the price of membership.  I am not usually one to go for a lifetime membership to anything ( often too expensive and it gives me a weird kind of trapped feeling) but in this case it has been a terrific deal and you should ask about it if you are joining for the first time.

If you'd like to actually take your kids to a theater for a Halloween movie treat there are 2 great choices happening Halloween weekend;

On Saturday the 30th at 7:30  The American Cinematheque in Hollywood is showing Ghostbusters and on Sunday the 31st The Aero  on Montana Ave in Santa Monica is showing The Monster Squad at 5pm.

If you have any great suggestions for movies please share them in the comment section. Happy Halloween everybody!

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Happy Birthday Oscar Wilde

It is the birthday of Oscar Wilde, author of novels, short stories and plays and one of the world's great wits.



There are many well know quotes attributed to him. Here are 2 of my favorites:

It is absurd to divide people into good or bad. People are either charming or tedious.

When lying close to death in a seedy hotel in Paris - This wallpaper is terrible. One of us will have to go.

Friday, October 15, 2010

Blog Action Day - Water

Today is blog action day, a day when bloggers all over the world post about the same issue.  This year the topic is water.  The numbers are staggering - nearly 38,000 children die every week due to unsafe drinking water and unhygienic living conditions - it takes 24 liters of water to produce just one hamburger -  many of the world's conflicts are due, in part, to the struggle for access to water - the average person uses 465 liters of water a day.  It's enough to make you want to stop reading right now, isn't it?  What can you do about any of it?  Well, let's try something together .

Click on the link and be taken to H2O Conserve, an easy, kinda' fun calculator of your water use.  Go ahead, it only takes a few minutes. I'll wait. Come back when you're done.

Finished? How about that, huh? I'll be honest - I was a little smug when I started.  Bearing in mind that my family of 4 lives in a small (1600 sq ft) house with 1.5 bathrooms, 2 low flow toilets, and super energy efficient, front loading (and slightly pain-in-the-ass) European appliances.   Plus, I often drive a Prius ( though I also drive a gas guzzling wagon), recycle everything possible and I and one of my kids is a vegetarian.  I thought I had this thing beat.  Well, my average use is 832.28 gallons PER DAY! WHAT!!!??? What did you get?

Now, my dear readers, this is not a guilt trip.  But let's wake up. Water - its availability, cleanliness, use, packaging, treatment, its connection to the health of children, families, whole countries, is an issue that affects all of us all the time.  Clean, accessible, abundant water is a gift.  And like all the best gifts - health, children,  friendship, love it's one we must cherish and one for which we must take responsibility.

So - 2 things.  Take a look at the water footprint calculator (be honest!) and then commit to a change.  And, if you want to take some stronger action, my LA readers can start right here at home this weekend.


Heal the Bay has a nothing but the sand beach clean up going in Venice tomorrow from 10-12.  Click the link for full details.

Miracle Mile Art Walk


Tomorrow, Saturday the 16th, is 5th annual Miracle Mile Art Walk. Over 20 galleries are participating and several museums, including LACMA, are offering free admission.  The event includes dance performances and lectures.  For more information click here to get to the blog then click on over to download the days schedule.

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Bead Boutique

I spent such a fun, girly 1/2 hour yesterday at Bead Boutique that I wanted to share it with you.

Bead Boutique is a lovely, well curated bead store located in the West Hollywood section of Los Angeles.  The store carries beads from all over the world as well as a great selection of charms, chains, ropes, leather bands, and all variety of fasteners.  They also feature a good selection of jewelry making tools.  


It's such a nice place to spend some time with your daughter or some friends.  And, you get to play! Spread your choices out on the table and try out  all kinds of combinations until you have created the perfect piece. You can sit in the cozy corner, above, and put together an entire bracelet or necklace or simply pick what you want and let the friendly, talented staff finish it for you.

Last time I was in I made this turquoise, wood and silver bead necklace

 
but yesterday I went to choose something from the collection of finished jewelry they carry.


I am in love with these Swarovski crystal bands





I got 2 narrow ones, a black and a light blue.  But I have my eye on the wide white one, or maybe the wide black...

Bead Boutique is located down the street from Toast and across from Joan's on Third, both great places to have lunch.  The new Magnolia Bakery is a few blocks west.  Nearby are Sigerson Morrison, Ethel, and several other cute boutiques (if you're in the mood for some more expensive shopping.)  But, for well under $100 you can give yourself a treat - have lunch with some women you love, then go and make something pretty at Bead Boutique.

Bead Boutique
8313 West Third Street
323 966-5880

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Stock up for the Holidays on some of the best books for kids


Barefoot Books is offering 20% off now through Monday October 11th. Enter AUTUMN at checkout.  If you spend more than $6o you get free shipping too. Stock up on beautiful books, story cds and gifts for the upcoming Holidays.  When you click on my Barefoot link to the right you will be taken to my "favorites" page but don't miss some beautiful new additions I don't have room to feature.


The Barefoot Book of Dance Stories with a story CD


Tales of Mystery and Magic by my very favorite story teller the brilliant  Huge Lupton, also with a CD

and Arthur of Albion, a chapter book for older kids.

I just bought them all for my own kids. Enjoy!

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

School Picture Day

The world has now gone completely insane. Completely.  But- wait a minute- let me ask you. What do you think of this?
It's picture time at my kid's school. So I'm looking at the paper and I'm searching for the least expensive "package" because I know the pictures are going to be funny at best and, far more likely, they'll be awful and I am only willing to fork out $18 for bad pictures.  Why pay anything at all you might ask? Because I think having bad pictures of yourself from childhood is important. I think that the awfulness is, in fact, part of the point of elementary school portraits and certainly of the middle school pictures.  First you are missing teeth, later you have braces. One year you forgot it's picture day and you're wearing something stupid, the next year you were too cool to care and your hair is totally messed up. Throughout you are wearing eyeglass frames so hideous you can't believe your mother let you walk around in them.  For whatever reason the picture is terrible.  It happens to all of us.  You might even call it a right of passage.  Why does it matter? Because later, when you are older and you've found a good hairstyle and you've mostly gotten over all the trauma of school and childhood in general, you can look back at the picture and find so much love for that little kid with the messed up hair and the syrup on her shirt. You can have so much compassion for her with her huge crooked teeth and her wistful eyes and her sticky lip gloss and her zit.

But now this is all gone. Why? Because now, moms and dads, you can pay to take it all away.  "Great Upgrades!" is splashed across my form in giant type.  Metallic paper "has a pearlescent appearance that produces flattering skin tones" for around $20 extra. I am also told that, "Retouching saves the day! This service reduces any blemishes and lines ( lines - in a 10 year old!  I might start screaming right now) that might take away attention from how great you look!" Icky, vague and grammatically funky for only $10. But wait, there's more. Is your child currently wearing braces? Have them digitally removed for $35!

Why would you possibly do any of this???!!!!???? There is no good reason to have your child's braces digitally removed.  What kind of message do you think that sends? "I know honey, you really look bad right now. But we can just pretend this whole part of your life never even happened... " If you are considering doing this you need to sit down and give yourself a good talking to. If your kid is wearing braces - guess what?  One day in the future you will both get a sweet laugh about the year of the braces and your child will remember that once in a while he felt awkward about them but that he got through it, he handled feeling weird and uncool, he got over it and he can get over other challenges too.  And he will remember that his family loved him and his real friends were nice no matter what his teeth looked like. There are moments when we all think we won't make it through. Don't pretend they never happened. Don't erase the proof. An awkward picture of yourself, young and struggling and brave, can be something you carry with you like a talisman throughout your life.

Please resist the culture of the retouch when it comes to your children.  I'm not saying I don't understand the impulse to do it for yourself.  Listen,  I've been ranting so I'll  be honest - the day I discovered all the editing I can do with iphoto on my over 40 face was a happy day indeed.  But I recognize that this might be a little problem, that I would be happier and "healthier" if I spent the time loving myself just the way I am instead of erasing a few lines.  And I am working on this.  I trust that one day, maybe in 30 years or so, I will be a cool older woman who doesn't give a damn.  For now I will settle for refusing to allow this culture of insecurity to  infect my beautiful kids. And I refuse to pay extra to send them the message that they are not okay exactly as they are right now.  Resist the retouch!
To prove to you that I am serious -

Me circa 1977. Honest to God it's enough to send me right back into therapy. Not much a retoucher could have done here anyway...  But that's not the point!

 This is me now, by the way. Well, okay, so this was taken a couple of years ago by a professional and it's in black and white and everybody looks so good in black and white but STILL.

The point is the culture will mess with your kid's minds and hearts about their looks. Don't you do it too.  However well intentioned you may be, if you retouch your kids school pictures you are sending them the message that they are not okay exactly as they are. And you are depriving them of an opportunity to look back at their school years with tenderness and compassion and to love their younger selves in all their geeky, awkward glory. So put your child in a clean shirt, look in her eyes and tell her you love her before you all rush out the door. Give him a hug and a kiss as you say goodbye on picture day morning.  Then, in a few weeks, when the pictures come back, tell your kids they're beautiful. If you're looking at them the right way, no matter what they look like, it'll be true.